21 is a huge milestone age. you're an adult now; it's official. and you can't help but feel it's now or never... but before you dive headfirst into that bucketful of dreams, take some time to process things. i mean, you've only just turned 21, your whole life is ahead of you. what's the rush?
number 1. take some time off
it could be just a weekend hideaway at home or camping out in a cool, hipster-y cafe for an afternoon. anywhere you can chill and be alone with your thoughts. grab a journal and a pen, throw on something comfy, and let yourself drift. don't think, drift. just revel in the idea of being 21, acknowledge the responsibilities but see the opportunities, the stars and how much closer they are now. then turn around and see how far you've come. be proud, you did amazing
number 2. do something you like
even if it's just one little thing. read a whole book or finish up that sketch or ransack your pantry and make something sweet. stay away from screens because they seem to have this power that makes time pass wayy too quickly for you to enjoy yourself... try to finish the task. give yourself enough time but don't beat yourself up if you take longer than expected. you're barely 21 and you've got plenty of time to work on that. so, put on your favorite song and enjoy your date with you
number 3. do something you don't know if you like
do something you've never tried before; not something stressful or with long-term implications, just something fun and casual. haven't gone for a full-body massage before? book a session now! not sure about roller coasters? if not now, then when? kick off your 21st year with some sense of adventure and a zest for life
number 4. pamper yourself
you went through 21 years of life, you've experienced ups and the downs, you've clung on to dreams and somehow made them work, and you've choked back brave tears when they didn't. you did all that and learned so much. you deserve a pamper session: a time all about you. do something you are comfortable with, something to give you a confidence boost. it could be a manicure/pedicure or a fine dining experience with your closest friends. enjoy!
number 5. treat yourself
create a lasting memory of this special moment by buying something for yourself; something you've always wanted, something you finally dare to get. it's a birthday gift from you to you. it could be that perfume, pair of shoes, or makeup palette that you've been dying to try. every time you use that product, smile and remember how far you've come
number 6. life plan
i'm not talking about long term decisions like college, marriage, or owning a cat, but what you can do to make this coming year your best year yet. think of all the little ways you want your 21st year to be different. do you want to be a to be fitter? would you like to be able to play another instrument or speak another language? what skill do you want to master this year? focus on what you can do for you, what future you would thank younger you for. you are the best thing you can invest in. take it slow: month by month, week by week, even day by day. before you know it, it's become part of the new you
just little disclaimer: this is written much like a letter to my younger self so it might not resonate with everyone but i hope you enjoyed it nonetheless
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